The Record Book

Love does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 1 Corinthians 13:5
Okay everyone I know there are probably perfect people out there who never blame anyone for a wrong especially their spouse, right? Wrong!  It can be easy to be a list taker and keep account of how you were wronged. But in a healthy marriage it is not a good idea. 

Doesn’t the Bible clearly state to “not keep a record of wrongs”? Well if you do, and are festering with hate or the inability to forgive,  it is time to truly give your issue to God. Writing down this laundry list of faults is not good. 

Try to look at your spouse’s  good qualities that is what drew you together in the first place. Learn to overlook an offense or harmful word. If there are real issues, true counseling intervention may be necessary but realize God wants your marriage to glorify Him. So put down the paper and pen and give your issues to God. 

PRAYER: Father God the gift of marriage between a man and woman is wonderful. Help anyone married to be able to overlook stuff in order to move toward reconciliation. The enemy can not drive a wedge. In Jesus’ name. Amen.